Marriage is an institution that should provide comfort and warmth to the parties involved- the husband and the wife. Sadly the reverse is the case in this modern world we live in. Divorce is on the rise, and the rate at which most marriages end these days is rather alarming. A little problem that can be resolved within a matter of minutes is now one of the leading causes of divorce. A union that started as a real cause for laughter and joyful shout will now gradually turn into an uninhabitable dome.Marriage, as instituted by God is a union that was designed to last for as long as the husband and the wife are alive, or for short a lifelong union. That means if it is to last a lifetime both the husband and the wife must put forth the necessary effort and determination to make it work.If a meal will be really delicious, there must be an adequate supply of ingredients present in the meal. Similarly, in order for a marriage to be successful, the necessary ingredients or substances must be present, consistently. So what are the substances and ingredients that will help your marriage be successful?This book is aimed at helping married couples to start out their lives together on a good note. It also highlights practical things that you need to do to save your marriage if it is already nose-diving in the wrong direction. This book is a product of quality research and interviews of people that have been married for long. Their advice is clearly noted in the book as it discusses 20 golden rules that married people can start implementing right after reading this book.While we don't claim to understand everything about marital problems, it only helps to minimize any marital problems that may come your way and can help you make the right decision when you need you make a decision.

It was good to see another book from this talented author and I enjoyed reading The Golden Rules of Marriage. The book is a thought-provoking and knowledgeable read from start to finish. Written by a psychologist, the work explains why marriage counselling has not been effective and shows the reasons. The book focuses on profiting from differences, rather than trying to solve them and the crucial role that thoughts play in determining one's attitude. Using some ancient wisdom the work contains a five week program with practical strategies that a couple can complete at home. It explains what true love is and the difference with romantic love and shows how if a couple go by the Golden Rules then their problems can be solved. Written in an easy fluent style with excellent advice, it explains how our minds and thoughts govern our situations. I particularly liked the way the book combines ancient wisdom with modern concepts and shows there is not much difference after all. .............Leanne Saunders - Evaluator

Following a unique format perfect for today's world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us just over 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships. Marriage Rules offers new solutions to age-old problems ("He won't talk"/"She doesn't want sex") as well as modern ones (your partner's relationship to technology.) You'll also learn how to: Calm things down and warm them up Talk straight and fight fair Listen well as a spiritual practice Connect with a distant partner Survive the unique challenges of children, stepchildren and difficult- laws Follow a 12-step program to overcome defensiveness Know how and when to draw the line Take back your marriage when things fall apart Marriage Rules is a treasure chest of lively, practical advice to help you navigate your couple relationship with clarity, courage, and joyous conviction. If one person in a couple follows ten rules of his or her choice, it will generate a major, positive change. All that's required is a genuine wish for a better relationship and a willingness to practice.

You did the Rules-And They Worked! You captured the heart of your Mr. Right and are, at the very least, engaged. Maybe you're married ... or perhaps you and your partner got together without the help of The Rules. Now You're Looking for Ways to Keep Your Relationship Happy and Healthy. The Rules For Marriage is Here! In this new book, the authors of The Rules offer forty-two time-tested tips for keeping your marriage healthy and happy. Some will sound familiar, others are completely new. But they all lead to the same wonderful future-the one in which you and your husband stay together forever! Discover: * Rule #4: Keep up your own interests (have a life!) * Rule #15: Say what you mean, but don't say it mean * Rule #21: Don't force him to "talk" * Rule #35: Don't find fault with things you knew about when you married him So whatever your marital problems, The Rules for Marriage can help.

Self help book for creating healthy relationships.

Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. As a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and the founder and director of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute, he has studied the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over the course of many years. His findings, and his heavily attended workshops, have already turned around thousands of faltering marriages. This book is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward in their approach, yet profound in their effect, these principles teach partners new and startling strategies for making their marriage work. Gottman helps couples focus on each other, on paying attention to the small day-to-day moments that, strung together, make up the heart and soul of any relationship. Being thoughtful about ordinary matters provides spouses with a solid foundation for resolving conflict when it does occur and finding strategies for living with those issues that cannot be resolved. Packed with questionnaires and exercises whose effectiveness has been proven in Dr. Gottman's workshops, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential. The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the result of Dr. John Gottman's many years of closely observing thousands of marriages. This kind of longitudinal research has never been done before. Based on his findings, he has culled seven principles essential to the success of any marriage. Maintain a love map. Foster fondness and admiration. Turn toward instead of away. Accept influence. Solve solvable conflicts. Cope with conflicts you can't resolve. Create shared meaning. Dr. Gottman's unique questionnaires and exercises will guide couples on the road to revitalizing their marriage, or making a strong one even better.