“Why am I still single?” If you’re single and searching, there’s no end to other people’s explanations, excuses, and criticism explaining why you haven’t found a partner: “You’re too picky. Just find a good-enough guy and you’ll be fine.” “You’re too desperate. If men think you need them, they’ll run scared.” “You’re too independent. Smart, ambitious women always have a harder time finding mates.” “You have low self-esteem. You can’t love someone else until you’ve learned to love yourself.” “You’re too needy. You can’t be happy in a relationship until you’ve learned to be happy on your own.” Based on one of the most popular Modern Love columns of the last decade, Sara Eckel’s It’s Not You challenges these myths, encouraging singletons to stop picking apart their personalities and to start tapping into their own wisdom about who and what is right for them. Supported by the latest psychological and sociological research, as well as interviews with people who have experienced longtime singledom, Eckel creates a strong and empowering argument to understand and accept that there’s no one reason why you’re single—you just are.

Why You’re Still Single is not about chasing men, so you will not need a butterfly net. It is not about making them chase you, because they are not wolves and you are not a bunny. Relationship experts Evan Marc Katz and Linda Holmes do not suggest that you treat men like hostile alien presences, pretend you don’t understand football, buy padded bras, or refuse to call people back. But the benefit of other people’s experience might point out a few things that are tripping you up, no matter how much of an amazing, smart, hot, totally worthwhile ass-kicker you may be as a general rule. They recommend: Honesty (usually), playing fair, shutting up (sometimes), speaking up (other times), respecting that voice in your head that says "You’re doing WHAT?", making compromises, knowing when to cut bait, good sex, giving yourself a break, being needlessly generous, and periodically leaving your apartment. They don’t recommend: Pretending to like what you don’t like, treating winking and giggling like a Get Out Of Jail Free card, testing people, stubbornness, martyrdom, talking everything to death, and convincing yourself that you’re desperate.

“Behold a wonder—a romantic self-help book that is intelligent, upbeat, practical, useful, winning, and even wise.”—Kirkus Reviews If you want to find your soul mate, you first have to know yourself. If I’m So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single? offers intelligent, practical guidance to singles looking to improve their romantic relationships—by getting to know their own past patterns and relationship needs. Readers will find quizzes, case studies, and anecdotes from the author’s decades of experience as a counselor to both couples and singles. Each aspect of the book is tailored to help readers figure out what they really want—and learn not to settle for less. Translated into twenty-two languages, If I’m So Wonderful, Why Am I Still Single? has become a modern classic that’s helped countless people understand their own romantic motivations and find the partner they’re looking for. “Men and women who want permanent partners will benefit from her ‘10 strategies that will change your love life forever’…[an] engaging guide.”—Publishers Weekly

“Very wise . . . Give this book to every single girlfriend [you] have.”—Marie Claire If you’re looking to get married and you’re not, there’s most likely a very good reason: you. Hey, you’re certainly not a bad person! You just haven’t yet become the woman you need to be in order to have the partnership you want. That’s where this book comes in. Based on her wildly popular Huffington Post article, Tracy McMillan’s Why You’re Not Married . . . Yet dishes out no-holds-barred practical wisdom for women hoping to head down the aisle. And this new edition features even more candid advice and sisterly insight. McMillan points out the behaviors that might be in your blind spot and shows you how to adjust them to get the relationship you deserve. Do any of these chapter headings sound familiar? • You’re a Bitch: How defensiveness can hide behind a tough exterior, and why being nice is never a sign of weakness. • You’re a Liar: How to stop lying to men—and get honest with yourself—about the kind of relationship you really want. • You’re Selfish: The big secret about marriage: It’s about giving something, not getting it. A funny, insightful guide, Why You’re Not Married . . . Yet will change your life and the way you think about relationships, and it may very well lead you down the aisle. “Equal parts BFF, boot-camp instructor, and relationship guru, Tracy McMillan will change the way you think about yourself and your relationships. This book is for every woman out there who wants to have a great marriage.”—Ricki Lake

Why Am I Still Single For Women is not your typical dating book. It is an entertaining and insightful guide showing a smart, driven and ambitious woman how to stop attracting the wrong men, how to heal yourself from unavailable men, where to find love and your tribe, how to get a clearance about what you really want in life, how to love your body, how to get the date that makes you feel excited, how to look after yourself so you don’t get a burnout. After reading this book, you will finally understand what is stopping you from meeting that special someone and finding love in your life. The answer is very simple and by implementing several steps presented by Ieva Kambarovaite, relationship and dating coach, you will see the most positive and exciting changes in all areas of your life. This book can get you from a woman who thinks of 99 reasons why he has not texted you back, to someone who is seeing a man that cannot wait to call you. Ieva Kambarovaite shares her own personal journey how she went from someone who is waiting for those blue ticks on WhatsApp to appear to a woman that knows how to love herself, how to put herself first and how to build a life that does not just revolve around finding a partner. Do you know how to communicate with him, so he understands you? Do you know why you feel lonely and broken? Do you know what you really want in your partner? Do you know your love language? Do you know why you keep attracting the wrong guys? Learn the answers to these questions in Why Am I Still Single For Women. See instant results by making the most of the book. Don’t just read it but take action from day one. Ieva has put so much love into this book. It can heal your wounds and open the doors to a life full of love.

"How Are You Still Single?"It's a question usually asked by older generations to a growing population of single men and women traversing an online dating world. The truth is, most single people ask themselves that same questions as they go on bad date after bad date. Written with a wry sense of humor and an authentic voice, the books is a real-life portrayal of a thirty-two-year-old woman's journey to find love. From grade school to grad school and into adult life, you'll meet the many men she's met throughout her lifetime as her dating life evolves from instant messenger to the modern dating apps. All the men she's dated have names similar to the ones you or your friends have dated. Whether it's TheOneYouMeetWhenYou'reNotLooking, TheOneYourFriendRecommends, or Mr. TooMuchTooSoon, you'll find someone you've met before. They each have a unique love story with a common ending until she meets TheOne. Come along this author's love journey as she explains how hard dating is for some people and find out if TheOne can finally provide the answer she's been looking for to explain why she's been single for so long.

Happily Ever After isn't working for you--but why? This surprisingly effective new approach to dating from Casey Maxwell Clair identifies the ways people keep themselves single, sometimes without even realizing it--and what they can do to find the loves of their lives. After ending a painful five-year affair, author Casey Maxwell Clair came to the surprising realization that being married isn't the only way potential partners make themselves unavailable. In fact, men and women can be emotionally, legally, and sexually unavailable for happy, healthy relationships in dozens of ways. Casey Clair's new book, Still Single: Are You Making Yourself Unavailable When You Don't Want to Be?, is filled with startling revelations and indispensable advice on how to conquer this all-too-common dilemma. Through real-life examples and interviews you'll learn how to: *Identify behavioral patterns that can be obstacles to a committed relationship *Ask the questions that will reveal the true nature of someone's intentions *Eliminate the "unavailable" ones in all their many disguises *Identify the ways men and women sabotage their own relationships and discover a whole new approach to dating *Find new ways of understanding yourself that will help you to find the kind of relationship you're looking for Casey found her true love by following the principles presented in this book. It changed her life, and it can change yours too.