Raise secure, confident kids in a gender-confused world In this eye-opening book, family researcher Glenn T. Stanton offers a clear vision for why gender matters in how we raise our children. His thought-provoking insights expose the problems with stifling stereotypes and damaging cultural assumptions, then highlight a practical pathway for guiding children into healthy manhood and womanhood. You’ll discover… · what gender-appropriate behavior looks like at various ages—and why you shouldn’t panic if your toddler boy plays with his sister’s dolls. · how to help your daughter become secure in her sense of significance—whether she prefers chasing butterflies or shooting hoops. · how to inspire your son to compete and take healthy risks—in ways that fit his unique personality. · how moms and dads complement one another as they discipline differently, comfort differently, and influence differently. · what you can do on a daily basis to nurture your children’s God-given design and help them resist the pressure to conform to arbitrary cultural rules. With practical tools, well-researched insights, and real-life scenarios, this book equips parents to launch daughters who are secure in the power of their femininity and sons who are confident in their strength to make a difference in the world.

In this warmly supportive book, Dr. Stanley Greenspan offers a set of guiding principles to help parents of children-from preschoolers to teenagers-so that they feel secure in their homes, their schools, and in their community at large. He also illuminates the often subtle shifts in children's behavior that signal reaction to current stress and fears and gives parents concrete suggestions to help children handle their anxieties. The Secure Child will help families everywhere move toward the common goal of a more stable and secure future.

In the wake of the events of September 11th, families have drawn closer together, recognizing the comfort that can be drawn from those we treasure most. But how do we help children feel secure longterm? And how can we recognize the signs of distress or anxiety in their behavior that tell us that they need our help?In The Secure Child, Dr. Stanley Greenspan offers a set of guiding principles that will help parents of children at each age--from preschoolers to teenagers --both reassure and guide them so that they feel secure in their homes, their schools, and in their community at large. In addition. Greenspan illuminates the often subtle shifts in children's behavior that signal reaction to the current stress and fears and gives parents concrete suggestions to help children handle their anxieties and look to the future with confidence and optimism. From showing parents how to allow children to talk about their feelings to giving them concrete ways to contribute to national healing efforts, this profoundly wise book will help families everywhere move towards the common goal of a more stable and secure future.

Confident Parents, Confident Kids lays out an approach for helping parents—and the kids they love—hone their emotional intelligence so that they can make wise choices, connect and communicate well with others (even when patience is thin), and become socially conscious and confident human beings. How do we raise a happy, confident kid? And how can we be confident that our parenting is preparing our child for success? Our confidence develops from understanding and having a mastery over our emotions (aka emotional intelligence)—and helping our children do the same. Like learning to play a musical instrument, we can fine-tune our ability to skillfully react to those crazy, wonderful, big feelings that naturally arise from our child’s constant growth and changes, moving from chaos to harmony. We want our children to trust that they can conquer any challenge with hard work and persistence; that they can love boundlessly; that they will find their unique sense of purpose; and they will act wisely in a complex world. This book shows you how. With author and educator Jennifer Miller as your supportive guide, you'll learn: the lies we’ve been told about emotions, how they shape our choices, and how we can reshape our parenting decisions in better alignment with our deepest values. how to identify the temperaments your child was born with so you can support those tendencies rather than fight them. how to align your biggest hopes and dreams for your kids with specific skills that can be practiced, along with new research to support those powerful connections. about each age and stage your child goes through and the range of learning opportunities available. how to identify and manage those big emotions (that only the parenting process can bring out in us!) and how to model emotional intelligence for your children. how to deal with the emotions and influences of your choir—the many outside individuals and communities who directly impact your child’s life, including school, the digital world, extended family, neighbors, and friends. Raising confident, centered, happy kids—while feeling the same way about yourself—is possible with Confident Parents, Confident Kids.

Are you struggling to connect with your son or daughter? Do you feel like you are speaking different languages? Are you afraid of causing emotional damage and seeing them drift away forever? Parenting is not easy. Parent-child relationships can be fraught with misunderstandings and conflicts that leave both sides feeling frustrated and disconnected. These challenges can significantly impact your son's or daughter's mental health and self-esteem, leading to feelings of isolation, anxiety, and even depression. Despite your efforts, your connection with your son or daughter might be slipping away, keeping you awake with fear and worry. As they navigate the complexities of life, they need a strong, supportive relationship with their parents to thrive. Without this foundation, they may struggle with the diverse challenges life presents, feeling unsupported and misunderstood. I recommend reading this book if you recognize at least one of the following traits in your son or daughter: • Increased Secrecy: They are more secretive about their activities and whereabouts. • Frequent Arguments: Small disagreements quickly escalate into major conflicts. • Withdrawal from Family Activities: They prefer to spend time alone or with friends rather than participating in family events. • Decline in Academic or Work Performance: Stress and emotional turmoil affect their performance. • Signs of Anxiety or Depression: Noticeable changes in mood, sleep patterns, or overall behavior. • Rebellious Behavior: They engage in risky behaviors or consistently break rules. • Minimal Communication: They rarely open up about their thoughts or feelings. • Avoidance of Family Events: They find excuses to skip family gatherings or keep their distance. If you recognize these signs in your son or daughter, don't lose hope. There is a way to bridge the gap and rebuild your relationship. The harder you try to connect, the more they pull away, leaving you heartbroken and confused. As a parent, you might be feeling: • Heartbroken: Watching your son or daughter pull away and feeling powerless to stop it • Frustrated: Every conversation seems to end in conflict or misunderstanding. • Worried: Concerned about their well-being and the growing distance between you. • Lonely: Missing the close, trusting relationship you once had. By reading this book, you'll gain the tools to transform your relationship with your son or daughter, helping them feel more secure, confident, and connected. The cycle of misunderstanding can continue unless you do something about it. Don’t let misunderstandings and conflicts define your relationship. Take the first step towards a deeper, more loving connection with your son or daughter today. "Misunderstood Sons and Daughters" offers insights and strategies to help you strengthen the most important relationship in your life.

Jim Burns, president of HomeWord, lays a positive foundation for parenting with practical strategies and illustrations, teaching how to create a warm, grace-filled home.