Ever wondered what to say to that girl that was standing in line in front of you? Have you ever seen a girl while out at a club and just never knew how to approach her? Tired of wondering what may have been if you did make an attempt? Now is your chance to have an inside view as to how to approach the opposite sex. You have nothing to lose. The only time you need to involve will be spent reading this book!

Have you ever tried to meet that special soul mate on-line? Have you ever wondered why you are always worn out after searching, contacting, and trying to woo those cyberspace maidens? Have you ever tried to explain why the messages you sent to them went unanswered? Have you ever wondered why you are still single after all of these years? Well, you are not alone. Indulge your dating woes or pleasures vicariously through Cole Bolchoz, a teacher who met real women on web sites on-line. During a three-year journey Cole attempted internet-relationships while trying to keep himself sane. You will laugh your posterior off as he walks you through the Internet scams, and gives advice for what to do and what not to do while surfing these webs of romance.

This book shares the authors dating experiences, the ups and downs of dating as a middle-aged adult and gives some useful tips.

Have you ever tried to meet that special soul mate on-line? Have you ever wondered why you are always worn out after searching, contacting , and trying to woo those cyberspace maidens? Have you ever tried to explain why the messages you sent to them went unanswered? Have you ever wondered why you are still single after all of these years? Well, you are not alone. Indulge your dating woes or pleasures vicariously through Cole Bolchoz, a teacher who met real women on web sites on-line. During a three-year journey Cole attempted internet-relationships while trying to keep himself sane. You will laugh your posterior off as he walks you through the Internet scams, and gives advice for what to do and what not to do while surfing these webs of romance.

Dating in 2018 is difficult for many singles, but if you're a short, average looking middle-aged guy with no real game, it's even harder to get the attention of single women. The average Joe is considered to be vanilla, or bland, and doesn't stand out in a crowd. He doesn't have any outwardly discerning high-value qualities, and that makes it difficult for him to thrive in a competitive dating world; one where his opportunities are sometimes limited. It's difficult for average guys to figure out why they aren't having the success they desire, but when taking that hard look in the mirror, they can't help give more than a passing thought to what they have always suspected to be the truth: "It has to be me." If you've ever heard a woman say: "I'm sorry but I don't date anyone shorter than me." "I need a really strong guy. I mean, you're not jerk and all, and that's a good thing, but..." "You aren't the type of guy I'd normally go out with." "You're such a nice guy but I think we'd be better as friends." then this is a must read. As men, we are not expected to feel or show emotion, especially when it comes to dating and handling rejection. But deep inside, we worry just as much as women about how we are perceived. After repeated rejections, our emotions overwhelm us. We feel upset, hurt, frustrated, dejected, helpless, and have many times asked ourselves silently, "Is it really me?" It most certainly is. But there is hope. In this book, Vince Guaglione authentically shares his less-than-optimal, real-world dating experiences as a short, average-looking guy with no real game, goes on a fact-finding mission to learn what qualities truly matter to single women, and investigates both the social aspects of the singles world and the dynamics between the sexes, in an effort to learn what they reveal about dating as a whole. It's a book that empathizes with the plight of the average Joe. It lends an ear, provides support, offers encouragement, and dispenses concrete advice. But most of all, it gives this problem context for guys who have always suspected that their height, looks, and lack of game has negatively impacted their dating lives. Written primarily for the average Joe who struggles to attract dates, it also is relevant for those who are interested in understanding the real issues faced by these guys while navigating the sometimes turbulent and unchartered waters of the dating pool.

"I am so over dating."As singles, we may have heard this statement echoed many times within our immediate dating circles. Friends have stated it. Many in our social networks have stated it. Even we may have stated it at one time or another. Many singles have reached such a level of frustration with dating that is has caused them to throw up their hands in defeat. But are they honestly over dating?Not exactly.At one time or another, almost every member of the active singles community will have stated that yes, he or she is over dating. But the reality is that most are not. No matter how many times singles completely swear dating off, they continue to entertain the idea that the person of their dreams is out there, so they keep trying. But many are having trouble sifting through what the dating world serves up, and are continually bumping up against issues that prevent them from realizing their dreams, which is why, for most, dating has become exasperating. When posing the question, "Why are you still single?" to those who are active in the dating pool of the present day, you will likely hear replies such as: "I'm too old.""I'm too intimidating.""I have trust issues.""No one will date me.""I want someone who'll match my time and effort.""I haven't found a serious and decent guy who wants more than a hookup." "Women don't appreciate good men." "Something out of my control prevents things from going further.""I haven't met a guy who's character I can trust.""I held onto someone for years hoping they would change.""I don't trust myself to make good decisions."Although in recent years, dating has seemingly become an exercise in futility, and outside factors beyond our control play a part in the lack of success we experience as daters, the truth is, we as individuals have made it much harder on ourselves, if not more so, than the dating world has on us.When we take a step back and look at society as a whole, we find that failing to connect to ourselves and to others in a meaningful way is our biggest problem. And nowhere is this more apparent than in the sub-section of society known as the available singles pool. Those that are actively swimming in its turbulent waters are having a difficult time making sense of what they are seeing, hearing, and experiencing, so it's not surprising that dating has become a casualty of the dysfunctional society of the present day.But there are things you can do to making your personal dating life a more pleasurable, enjoyable, and ultimately, successful endeavor.In the first part of this book, Vince Guaglione take a deep dive into the issues that plague today's dating world, how those issues affect the entire dating community, and how they have created an environment that has resulted in dating being held in such low regard by those who are currently immersed in it. The second part of the book offers up helpful advice, tips, and strategies for navigating the current dating world, and provides guidance on how to make effective and efficient use of your dating time and effort, while providing some simple and effective concepts which, when implemented, will set you up for dating success.If you're single and are trying to make sense of the dating world, you will find something of value within these pages. It's a guide that will provide insight into what's really going on in the dating pool, and will aid you in creating a solid plan for remaining afloat